Family Ties - bring on the scissors

So im sure you all have that one relative who asks too many questions, calls too often, and is generally trying always to get in your business. Lets just say i have one too and today ive taken a vow to stop being so assertive and such an emotional push over. I need to break free from the guilt trip persuasive methods of this person and remember what is good for ME. Nothing irks me more than people who dont keep their word.